Tuesday, March 15, 2011

HG Ten on Tuesday

1. I'm baaaaccck. While I'm far from being 100%, I am offiicially living (and blogging) in Austin again. Today is my second day on my own with Ruby and things are going ok. I'm exhausted by 6pm when David gets home, but what pregnant lady wouldn't be? The good news is that I haven't been throwing up, I'm starting to eat real food again, and I feel slightly less nauseous.

2. A picture to document that we are actually at home, hanging out on the sofa watching Sesame Street and talking about how cool it is to pee and poo on the potty.



3. My parents are awesome. Seriously amazing people. I always knew they were awesome, but they really went above and beyond the parenting call of duty the last few months. They opened their home to us for over the last seven weeks and kept me out of the hospital (which is where I was surely headed). My mother put her entire life on hold to take care of me and Ruby. I don't think I can ever repay her for parenting Rubina 24/7 the entire time we were in Houston. She also had hyperemesis when pregnant with me, so I know that she truly understands just how frustrating, exhausting and isolating the condition can be.

4. Not only did my folks take care of us for almost two months, but my mom would drive Ruby and me to Austin to visit David on weekends he wasn't able to visit Houston. I don't even want to think about how many miles she put on her car going back and forth. I love you, Mom. More than chocolate cake and ice cream AND chicken.

5. David posted one of the pictures from our last visit to Austin two weeks ago. We did a low key family picnic at Mayfield Park where we introduced Ruby to pretzel chips and checked out the peacocks. Here are a couple more pictures to brighten up this blog post:


6. I want to get a tshirt made that says "Hyperemesis is my nemesis." I know it's cheesy, but hyperemesis really is the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with in my life. I was in a dark place emotionally and physically when I got to Houston. I'll spare our blog readers the details of how miserable I was, but it wasn't pretty. I'm doing much better now, thanks to all the support from my family and friends.

7. The mommy friends I have in Austin have also gone above the call of duty since I've been home. Not only did they call, text and email to check in on us while we were gone, but one special momma friend arranged meals and playdates for us for the next two weeks. The dinners they have brought so far have been delicious, and Ruby has loved her playdates the last two days. I have also loved my naps while she was out having fun with friends.

8. I also have the best husband ever. While I know it's got to be hard for him to understand just how miserable the hyperemesis makes me, he has been nothing but considerate, supportive, and loving the whole time I've been pregnant. He never once complained about living like a bachelor for seven weeks, although I know it had to be hard for him too. He kept the house clean, the dogs happy, and had flowers waiting for me each time we came home. I'm so lucky to be married to him.

9. We will not be having any more children, in case anyone was wondering if were crazy enough to do this all over again in a few years. NO WAY.

10. When I was in Houston, I spent a lot of time alone in my room sleeping and listening to music (and trying not to vomit). This song was one I listened to a lot, and imagined dancing around the house with my little family and getting back to life as usual in Austin. My dog days might not be totally over, but I'm finally making some improvements and able to enjoy little bits of my pregnancy.



7 comments:

Baba said...

Emilia: Very nice post. You are all worth the effort. If you didn't know before how amazing your Mom is...you know now. We miss you. Baba

Tabatha said...

LOVE Florence. Awesome song. Glad you're home & doing better. Even more glad we can help out. Hope we can help out some more. :)

MM said...

Oh Emilia,
You hit the nail on the head. You hear an awful lot about LOVE, and now you know what REAL love is..it is giving up YOUR life for the well being of another. Agape is the word that comes to mind...
Love the 4 of you <3<3
MM

JuJu said...

Emilia, we are sooo glad that you are home, but most of all that with the extra special care of GiGi, you are beginning to thrive! Praise God for Caroline! We love all of you~ JuJu and Grampa
And I agree totally with Martha: this is Agape love. <3

Lauren said...

i love you dear sister.

Anonymous said...

So glad you are feeling better and able to be back in Austin. I can't imagine you being more sick than with Ruby. Can't wait to see you again. - Theresa

Unknown said...

1. I love that song, too. It is my 2011 theme song!
2. "Hyperemesis is my nemesis" on a t-shirt is hilarious. Please make one.
3. You do have a wonderful husband.
4. You and Ruby are very pretty ladies, even when making scrunched up faces.
5. I want that floral shirt in your picture. Please text me where you got it...or give me yours...just kidding...kind of.
6. I think your mom deserves a namesake...just saying!
xoxo